What’s So Difficult with helping Spreading Butter on a Waffle 2 Help Some1 out

I have Myofascial Pain Syndrome, Fibromyalgia, and other medical problems that cause me a lot of pain. One thing I have is the difficulty where sometimes I can spread things on other things & other times can’t & sometimes I need help cutting or tearing something open because sometimes I can tear things open or cut them & other times I can’t. . At Gateway at River City when they would cut my food up 4 me or spread things on my food 4 me I would have 2 practically BEG & PLED with them 2 get them 2 help me, now (lately) they are refusing 2 cut my food when I need help or help spread things on my food when I need help. HOW THE BASTARD ASS MUTHER FUCK IS THAT ALLOWED????? A SUPPORTIVE LIVING FACILITY REFUSING 2 HELP A CLIENT WITH HELP THEY NEED JUST BECAUSE THEY DON’T FEEL LIKE DOING IT!!!!!